The Odd Woman and the City

Vivian Gornick

My 5 highlights

  • She took lovers easily and frequently,
  • The plates were gold-rimmed china, the wineglasses thin crystal, the forks heavy silver. The food was delicious, but there wasn’t enough of it. The wine, however, flowed.
  • On the very last day of my twenties I married a scientist, a man of brooding temperament who had taken eighteen years to complete his dissertation.
  • As the tone, syntax, and vocabulary of this group were foreign to me, I did not at first grasp the banality of the conversation. People introduced subjects in order to allude, not to discuss.
  • New York friendships are an education in the struggle between devotion to the melancholy and attraction to the expressive.